The Other Guy !!!

The Other Guy !!!! The whole term feels like Rebuke in itself  . We always watch the Other Guy in movies and television ...... the one who wrecks a couple's life for his SELFISHNESS. You always curse this guy ..... for u know u he is wrong ..... until the day you find that u are the Other Guy ( or a wannabe Other Guy ) ......... I have to say that i am not the Other Guy yet ..... ( how pathetic that i havent even qualified for that yet ) .. but that is where i seem to be intending to head .... Look i am not a Relation Breaker ...... I just keep getting this feeling that the relation she is in at this point of tym is not very serious ... for watever reason .... May be she deserves better ... I just want to ensure that if she is looking for anything better , i be there . I'd be thr for her through out ...... I just need a Chance ..... But if she is happy with whoever she is with at this point of time .... I 'd like her to stay with him ( I actually wouldnt like but wld have to give in to the fact that her happiness trumps mine ) And Her Happiness would Always trump mine .......
      I never thought i'd aspire to be the Other Guy ( After all the guy is all Villain ) , but if I can keep her happier than the guy she is currently with , why not me ...... In the end the choice has to be her's ..... and how will she ever choose me if she doesnt know / or see me as an option .................  A stand by ??? I hate to admit but yes......